Last updated 2 months ago
Being asked to be a pallbearer is a significant honor, and indicates that you are an important person to the family and the deceased. Watch this video to learn what you can expect when you’re asked to be a pallbearer.
The basic job of a pallbearer is to transport the casket from the funeral service site to a hearse, or from the hearse to the gravesite itself. As a pallbearer, you may need to arrive as much as an hour before the funeral service begins to find out where you need to be. You may be asked to sit in a specific row during the service, and the family may provide you with a boutonniere that designates you as a pallbearer.
For answers to all of your funeral-related questions, contact Leak & Sons Funeral Homes of Chicago at (877) 265-0352. We are proud to be family-owned and operated, and offer compassionate funeral services from our family to yours.
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Your wedding is one of the most important days of your life, and you should plan out in detail how you want it to go. When you are planning your wedding, you may want to consider how to include your loved ones who have passed on in your ceremony. Even if the funeral service has already happened, honoring your lost loved ones during your wedding can be an additional tribute to provide happy memories and closure. Keep reading for ideas on how to honor a lost loved one at your wedding.
Wear a Memento
Whether you are honoring a grandparent, parent, aunt, uncle, or other family member or friend at your wedding ceremony, one subtle way to pay tribute to your lost loved one is to wear something he or she gave to you. This could be a pair of earrings, a necklace, or cufflinks. It doesn’t matter if the object is an heirloom passed down through generations or simply something that was given to you as a gift—the sentiment is the same. You can choose to acknowledge the memento, or you can remain silent knowing that a piece of your loved one is with you on your special day.
Include a Tribute
Another way to honor the deceased at your wedding is to include a small tribute in the wedding program. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—something as simple as including the person’s name and relationship to you can suffice. That way, your guests will all recognize that you are paying your respects at the same time that you’re celebrating.
Set Up a Photo Table
A photo table is a lovely way for you and your guests to remember the happy times that have come before, and can include friends and family members who are gone as well as those who are still alive. Your guests can peruse the table at their leisure, and everyone will be able to honor loved ones at their own pace.
At Leak & Sons Funeral Homes of Chicago, we recognize that losing a loved one is one of the hardest parts of life. Call us at (877) 265-0352 to learn about the funeral services we provide, including custom services and cremation. We will help you remember your loved one in a tasteful and dignified manner.
Last updated 2 months ago
Losing a loved one is never easy, no matter how old you are. The grieving process may be especially confusing and scary for children who have never encountered death before. Though some people believe that children should not be included in a funeral service, there are ways to involve children to help them understand loss and provide them with closure. Keep reading to learn how children can be involved in a funeral service for a loved one.
Whether a child has lost a parent, grandparent, or close cousin, you can ask him if he would like to be involved in the ceremony. This is an age-dependent question, of course, as very young children may not understand what that even means. Some children may want to speak during the funeral service. If this is the case, an adult should join the child at the microphone and be there for him if he needs comfort. You can ask your child questions about what he misses of the deceased, or just ask him to relate one of his favorite memories.
Planning the Funeral
Children like to feel involved, and may want to be part of the funeral planning process. If your child expresses interest in helping plan the funeral, consider what is appropriate for him to do. While he probably shouldn’t be involved in details such as choosing a casket or urn, you can give him a few pieces of music to choose from, or ask him to be involved during the service. A child can pass out programs or memorial cards at the funeral home, and it may even give your guests hope for the future to see a child. Remember that your child may change his mind about being involved, so you may want to provide a place where he can go if he needs a break during the funeral.
Leak & Sons Funeral Homes is a full-service funeral business providing quality end-of-life services to families across the Chicago area. Give us a call at (877) 265-0352 to experience the compassionate service we have been providing since our beginnings in 1933.
Last updated 2 months ago
Funerals can be emotional, overwhelming events. There are many details to be taken care of, and there may be many visitors that must be greeted and made to feel welcome. You have enough to think about when you’re involved in the funeral planning process, which is why Leak & Sons Funeral Homes offers repast rooms for you and your family. Our repast rooms have full kitchens, and are ideal places for you to greet and mingle with your guests before or after the funeral service. Many of our clients appreciate the use of our repast rooms so that they do not have to open their homes to their guests for a reception following the funeral service.
Take advantage of repast rooms and many other amenities and services when you choose Leak & Sons Funeral Homes. We are proud to provide Chicago families with dignified end-of-life services. Contact us at (877) 265-0352 to learn more about how we are different from other funeral homes.
Last updated 3 months ago
It is never too early to start thinking about pre-planning funeral services. When you take control of the planning, you remove the burden from your family in their time of loss. Keep reading to learn more about the benefits of starting to plan your funeral services now.
It Allows You to Remove the Financial Strain from Your Family
When you pre-plan, you can make sure to cover the costs for the service. Whether you want a funeral service with a burial or you choose to be cremated, taking care of the planning ensures that your family will not have to take on the costs of the service.
It Helps You Get the Funeral Service You Want
When you take control of planning your funeral, you know that the funeral home will honor your wishes and give you the final ceremony that you feel you deserve. This gives you the opportunity to choose the funeral home and cemetery. It also makes it less stressful for your family when they do not have to try to plan a service they think you will appreciate.
It Simplifies the Funeral Process for Everyone
People are sad and distressed in the days leading up to a funeral. Pre-planning takes away the need for your family to come together during this emotional time and organize the funeral services. Whether your are planning an out-of-town ceremony or a custom funeral service, doing it now makes dealing with your loss a little bit easier for your family.
If you want to start planning your funeral, turn to Chicago’s Leak & Sons Funeral Homes. Since 1933, we have offered quality service, an extreme dedication to our customers, and the grief support needed during the loss of a loved one. To learn more about our funeral service options, visit our website or call (877) 265-0352.